Marilyn Verbiscer – Healing from the Trauma of Infidelity: Help Clients Rebuild Trust and Find Forgiveness After an Affair

Marilyn Verbiscer – Healing from the Trauma of Infidelity: Help Clients Rebuild Trust and Find Forgiveness After an Affair

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Marilyn Verbiscer
5 Hours 48 Minutes
Audio and Video
Dec 07, 2017



Types of Infidelity and Their Impact of Treatment

  • Physical Affair
  • Emotional Affair
  • Physical-Emotional Affair
  • Atypical Infidelity, Complex Affairs and
  • Split-Self Infidelity

Gender, Vulnerabilities and Opportunities

  • Genetic Predispositions
  • Warning Signs
  • Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
  • Opportunity in the Work Place, with
  • Previous Partners and on the Internet
  • Why and How it Happens

Rebuilding Trust Phase of Infidelity Treatment

  • Trauma of the Revelation
  • Oral History Interview and No Secrets Contract
  • Assessing Trauma and PTSD Symptomology and Teaching Self-Soothing
  • The Hallmarks of Salvageability
  • Trigger Warnings
  • High and Low Cost Trust Building Behaviors

Create Understanding and Meaning Phase of Therapy

  • Why You Strayed…and Why You Stayed
  • The Slippery Slope and Walls v Windows
  • 4 Factors That Set the Context
  • Create the List of Changes
  • The Miracle Question

Fostering Forgiveness Phase of Treatment

  • The Formal Apology Session
  • What Forgiveness Is, What It Isn’t and the Potential Payoffs.
  • The Choice and Repercussions of Not Forgiving
  • Self-Forgiveness, Cheap Forgiveness and Genuine Forgiveness
  • The Mistaken Assumptions and
  • Maladaptive Personal Beliefs about Forgiveness

Recommitment Phase of Healing

  • Building Rituals of Connection
  • Reclaiming Places, People and Events
  • Tarnished By the Affair
  • Celebration to Signify Mutual Recommitment
  • Vision of Marriage
  • Reversing Walls v Windows
  • Building Other Protective Factors

Healing Alone Is Better Than Not At All

  • Individual Change is Relationship Change
  • Even When the Partner Isn’t In Therapy
  • Grieving the Loss When the Partner
  • Divorces or Dies
  • Trusting Again
  • Healthy Social Networks, Support Groups and Seminars/Retreats
  • Begin a New Life


Marilyn Verbiscer, MS, LMFT Related seminars and products: 1

Marilyn Steinberg, MS, LMFT, has dedicated her career to working with couples and families She has successfully worked with a variety of individual, couple and family issues such as infidelity, ineffective communication, conflict management issues, incest, depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, family of origin issues, rape, attention deficit disorders, family conflict, eating disorders, conduct disorders, grief, hoarding and other issues.

She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology and Master of Science degree in Child Development and Family Studies from Purdue University. Ms. Steinberg is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), an AAMFT Approved Supervisor, a Certified Gottman Seven Principles Educator, a member of the Indiana Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (IAMFT) and a past IAMFT Board Member and Region Representative.

Ms. Steinberg has published and presented both nationally and internationally on the topics of sexuality, family therapy, ethics, adolescence, gang behavior and residential care. She practices at Life Strategies as a couple and family therapist, teaches undergraduate and graduate courses, and is an independent supervision consultant.

Speaker Disclosure:

Financial: Marilyn Steinberg is in private practice. She has an employment relationship with Life Strategies, LLC. Ms. Steinberg receives a speaking honorarium from PESI, Inc.

Nonfinancial: Marilyn Steinberg is a member of the Illinois Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.


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